Thursday March 11, 2010

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Around town – memories of old Fernie

Lately I’ve been getting frequent emails about the “good old days,”   Some words draw nostalgia and provide reflection during nights when sleep is elusive.  During these times when I’m staring into darkness I mentally go up and down the streets of town remembering people that are deceased or moved during the past half century of life in Fernie.

I recall Elsa, unforgettable in short bob accented by rows and rows of bobby pins.  Elsa would stand quietly behind the door of her porch ready to pounce on girls walking by convinced they were out to steal her husband.  Next door lived a tall thin man and his very short, round son.

Down the street lived four brothers.  Once when mom and I went to bring them a pot of soup we found the tub of their wringer washer overflowing with boiled spaghetti. It seemed this was a staple for the old bachelors.

When I got my driver’s licence I learned on a fifties Ford truck with standard controls, emergency brake, clutch, gas pedal and dimmer switch controls on the floor.  It had running boards and fender skirts. I gave a ride to mom’s friend once and heard later that the occasional rough transition from clutch to pedal gave her such a bumpy ride she feared for her life.

I recall when hardwood floors were covered with wall to wall carpet because it was considered classy; phones answered by an operator saying “number please,” with party lines you could listen in on.  Saturday matinees cost twenty- five cents; five cents got you a bag of penny candy with black babies and jujubes, strawberries and gum balls, and after the show sometimes you got lucky and went home with a colourful poster advertising the movie.

Field trips were excursions across the school to the field behind the tracks to play ball or have a picnic, divorced parents were unheard of and moms were always home after school and if mom needed anything from the store we would walk by ourselves to buy it.

Summers were filled with long hot days weeding the garden, shelling peas in the shade or running through the sprinkler. Cracker Jack popcorn was a delicious treat eaten while staring at the purple outline of mountains at dusk, enjoying the sound of crickets.

In summer we sweltered upstairs in our bedrooms, in winter froze until the coal and wood furnace was lit.

My friends and I enjoyed games of hide and seek or spinning around till we were dizzy.

I was raised in a quiet and simpler time in Fernie. It was a time when teachers could yield the strap if you misbehaved and you were scared to go home and tell parents because what came next was even worse.

I couldn’t have imagined Atari, PlayStation or Wii, or a personal computer with internet, email, and Skype.

I’ve seen amazing changes in the past half century, imagine the wonders the next fifty will bring, perhaps these days will be the “good old days” for our  grandchildren.


Comments

maria says...

Mary, these memories that you share are so true for so many of us that grew up in the quiet, but comfortable town of old Fernie. "Family" was every friendly, familiar face that one passed on the street, met at the Post Office, or shared a special time with. Our Italian community was especially close-knit.
Those peaceful days have served to see us through many of life's later trials.
I enjoyed the column, and hope to see more.

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Jordan says...

Thank you for sharing these memories with us, Mary.

Fernie has changed so much even since I was a little kid in the '90s/early 2000s, but it is so interesting for me to hear this story and tales from my grandfather and try to imagine life before the internet; when a movie cost 25 cents (isn't it $7 now? Rediculous!); when everyone knew everyone else.

When I read stories like this one, I often find myself wishing I could go back and experience the Fernie my grandfather grew up in.

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Larry says...

Darn, just when the "good 'ol days are about to be lost in the fog of aging....here comes Mary and her sunshine to put it all in the light of today.
I come from an even older time when the Saturday matinee was only 10 cents and popcorn free (showered from the balcony); an eight year-old boy, for another 10 cents, could ride the trolly all the way downtown (about 10 miles - Portland) and back all by himself.
Our young people live in an age of wonder and plenty...but a scarier/harsher world than was ours.
.. the stakes much higher, the risks far greater.
Thanks for the memories (pardon me, Bob).

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Birnie says...

Hi Mary
I enjoy reading your column so much! We have great memories to look back on but we are still young at heart!

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Pauline says...

Mary I enjoy your columns - I can see the people and places that you refer to. Keep the columns coming.

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